My 9mo DD still has to be rocked to fall asleep, she then goes down around 7.30 pm until 12- after that she's up constantly until we bring her in beside us and she sleeps the full night. How can we break this pattern and get her to sleep the full night in her cot?? It just feels like we spent all our time trying to get her to sleep and don't have any time to ourselfs :(