Hi everyone I need some help, my little man is 9 months old I’ve recentky started to push a bedtime routine, I’ve cut his naps down to 2 a day he doesn’t always have long naps so altogether he has between 1 1/2 - 3 he’s during day, we have dinner at 5 yo did bath at 6.30 then into bedroom for bottle and bed, he won’t self settle (I am going to look into that too if anyone has advise) he goes down about 7 then up until 8.30 I have to keep running back up to settle him because his crying, I don’t get him out of cot and usually it’s hust for dummy (that’s going soon too) but other times i literally have to get into his cot to settle him to sleep, how do I get him to go down and stay down?? Thanks for any help x