Exhausted and fed up

[Poppy1989]

My boy is 9 months now.... and still won't sleep. I'm so fed up.

Iv tried everything and I mean everything. He won't go in his own room, I'm up with him every hour still through the night. And it's taking a huge toll on my relationship and mental health.
What am I doing so wrong!! I can't seem to find a way to do it right.

How does he eat and sleep during the day? Do you use any white noise or lullaby’s when he is in bed? Dummy?

I don't think you are doing anything wrong. Some babies are just like this. It's actually completely within the range of normal, though exhausting. My son is 18 months. In the past month he has gone from hourly wakes (since he was 4 months old) to waking twice a night. It feels like bliss! He's my second child and I've done everything the same as the first time. My first child slept through at 10 months. Hang in there, they all get there in their own time.

Disclaimer: I'm assuming he is not waking due to pain or discomfort. If you think he might be, it would be worth getting him checked for intolerances/ adenoids etc