Please help me understand if/where I am going wrong as my DD is waking for long periods in the middle of the night/ waking extremely early and I don't know what to do.
This is a fairly recent problem.
Example
Friday night into Saturday
3.15am wakes up, and will not go back to sleep until 5.30am
Then naps:
5.30aam-7.30am
9am -11am
2pm -5pm
Then goes to sleep again at 7.45pm
So Saturday night into Sunday looks like this:
7.45-1.30 fitful sleep with frequent very short wake ups, goes back to sleep quickly with either cuddling or milk
1.30 am wakes up and will not go back to sleep until 4.30am
Then naps:
4.30am-6.45am
9.15am- 10.45am
2pm - 4pm
Goes to sleep then at 6.30pm, again has had 2 short wake ups already . It's 10.15pm where I am (not U.K.) so am dreading an early morning 2-3 hour awake period
Why is she waking up for these long periods or waking up so early e.g 3.15? I assume her body has had enough sleep by then so I need to cut sleep elsewhere? But how much? I just let her sleep when she needs it in the day.
Do I count that first nap as a nap or just a continuation of her overnight sleep? Do I start waking her up from the later naps so she sleeps for a shorter periods in the day?
I keep it boring etc when she wakes up overnight.
She is bottle fed.
Any advice? I don't mind her waking up many times a night to cuddle etc but I can't cope with the long awake period!!
Thanks!