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I'm cracking up, HELP!!!!

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MO2x · 30/10/2018 02:40

My DD is 18months and my DS is 36months. My daughter has never ever been a great sleeper and its beginning to wear me down now, recently she's got worse waking more and more and doing so she doesn't settle and wakes my DS. I don't know what else to try. Iv done the moving chair'' Iv left her to cry. Iv cuddled her, even tried cosleep and she gets worse an worse to the point she's butting the cot and throwing herself around to the point of hysterics.
Their dickhead father doesn't bat an eye lid whilst this is all happening but will sometimes shout give her calpol or 'what the fuck you doing to them kids' - when she's butting the cot. He will let me stay up until gone 3 juggling both children alone, Then he has the cheek to stay in bed until gone 8/9 has a bath an breakfast and then goes the gym. He comes home has dinner. Leaves a holy mess for me to clean everytime then has a nap until his tea is ready. I'm beyond annoyed right now and he moans if I try to have an hour with the kids in the day. I'm full of the flu aswel I could honestly kill the fucker. I'd love to get a bath in a morning on my own an get reayy with someone ironing my clothes etc but it's never happened I get a bath on a ngght with 2 kids drowning me and colouring me in with bath crayons after Iv had a wash! Haha but sorry for the bad language and rant but I need to vent at this daft hour whilst I'm fighting with 2 kids to sleep.

He's very abusive if you've not seen my last post and I genuinely cannot wait to leave him and finally move into my house!! 2 more sleeps and counting then I'm away from this lazy selfish self centered boneidle waste of sperm!!!!

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Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
Rosesared · 03/11/2018 20:38

Sounds horrendous, and before I got to the last bit of your post I was thinking Soddit, if it was me I'd take the kids n eff-off...
Then I read the last bit. I'm sorry you had to go thru an abusive relationship. It's been 2 days since your post. I hope you're in your new house and settling in.
Have a look at the Huckleberry sleep app, it's super helpful!

Enjoy ur new Home, sweet Home Wine

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