We've been sleep training and she's a lot better than she was. I tried all methods but eventually went to ferber method and it's been the only thing that works for her. Instead of fighting her to sleep for 3 hours, she not settles herself as soon as she's in her cot. It's brilliant. She seems a lot happier and well rested now too from it. Instead of falling asleep at 11pm, she's down at 8pm.
So she wakes around midnight and won't stop screaming until she's in our room. I have my newborn in with me now and if it wasn't for him, we would most likely still be Co sleeping with her but they wake one another up terrible, so she's now in her room. But she won't stop crying until she's in our bed again and none of us are sleeping.
How should I settle her at night? Although she's better rested, she will still wake up quite tired from ds waking her for a night feed :(