Toddler sleep

[Abi1987]

What time does your toddler go to bed? My almost two year old doesn't even settle until 9-9.30. He's tired at like 5 and would probably settle then but it's way too early for bed and I know he will be up at 12 partying ha. I know he's overtired but he's a nightmare to settle down, he thinks its a game and will run up and down his bed and not lie down. I am loosing my mind.

I know this sounds crazy and I don’t really have all the answers but my eldest when he was little wouldn’t easily rest at the time I was putting him to bed. I fetched his bedtime forward to 6pm and he slept all night. Maybe it’s abour finding the right bedtime for your toddler rather than what we think their bedtime should be.

Does he nap ?
My 2 year old doesn't settle until 9-10 pm. If she does . Without a nap she sleeps erm anytime between 6:30-7.
Put her down at 7 if she has a nap and 6:30-45 if no nap .

Trying to stop her naps now as just makes bedtime a nightmare