We have a bedside crib for my 9.5 week LG which she will sleep in some of the time, but I often give in and pull her into bed with me when she won't settle. We've been sticking to safe sleeping guidelines i.e. no duvet on her, away from pillows, crib to roll into - and I've been lying in the standard 'C' shape - but I wake up so uncomfortable! Cricked neck, sore shoulder, sore hip etc. My main issue is what to do with the underneath arm that goes over her head as it won't bend the way the pictures all show. What do people do to get comfortable? Help save my shoulder, please!