just that really. She shares a room with her sister, and pretty much every night she appears upstairs with us and gets into bed. This is OK up to a point, but part of the problem is that DD1 (7) says she feels "lonely" and also wants to join us. DP and I could really use having our bed back, but I fear that putting her back to bed will involve hours of being awake in the middle of the night and I just can't face it...