DD2 (5mo) feeds to sleep, refuses all bottles and dummies. I always thought this was the dream, but have a definite case of "be careful what you wish for"!
I'm the only one who can settle her, she's only interested in boob. And once asleep she seems to need constantly topping up!
But - any form of sleep training is going to involve screaming. Which will keep dd1 awake. And based on previous bad evenings, she'll start crying as well, they'll both be screaming for me and keep each other awake! So what do people do? Send dd1 to Grandma? Put ear defenders on her?!