And I'm so bloody happy 
He's had his shower, story, snuggle and chat, tucked him in then set my alarm for 5 minutes and told him if be back to give him another kiss and check on him.
Took 20 minutes on Friday night, and it's reduced since, I went back up the first time tonight and he was already asleep!
After months of up and down stairs "I need a drink/ I'm hungry/I'm scared/my knee is sore/I didn't like that story/ I can hear a noise/ what are you having for dinner" and crying, lost tempers and late nights, I think we've finally cracked it.
He's just turned 4 by the way.
anyone? I'm pouring!