My17 month olds naps are awful, always have been. She was completely refusing her afternoon nap so we decided she must be ready for 1. Some days she would nap 9-9.45 and have absolutely nothing else until bedtime which had to be brought forward til 6. We tried to settle for a lunchtime nap which seemed to be the 'norm' which she can stay awake for pretty well, but the length of her naps is terrible. She often wakes after 30 minutes, 45, 1 hour and this can go on for the duration of the nap. Some days she will only have 45 minutes regardless how much we try to get her back to sleep.
We have tried naps at different times of the day (from 10 until 12ish) but we are faced with similar problems. It makes no difference if she's in the car, pram, cot or lying next to me.
She hasn't been falling asleep until between 6.30 and 7.00 the last few nights, is having more night wakings which she hasn't done for months and is waking anywhere from 5 to get up. We treat it as a night waking and she will sometimes go back to sleep but sometimes won't. She is not allowed out of her cot until 6am at the earliest. She can self settle and has done from an early age.
When she gets up so early she is clingy and wingey all morning. I've tried putting her down earlier but she refuses, ends up falling asleep around 8.30/9 then won't always take a second nap. I really don't know what to try next. Has anyone else been faced with similar problems? And how did you overcome them? Any advice would be appreciated