my nine month old daughter wakes frequently 6-10 times a night. she co sleeps with me and I am still breast feeding . I frequently feed her back to sleep but try to settle her t sleep by comforting her first. Advice is that I need to get her in her cot and to teach her how to sleep on her own with controlled crying techniques is this the only answer ? I don't have the stamina for it! Is anyone in the same boat?