I have a three year old and a 7 month old. Currently I spend most of my evening lying with one of them in a dark room till they go to sleep. Typically the youngest goes to bed at 6.30-7 and I feed then hold him till he falls asleep. Once he's asleep I then tackle the three year old who I have to lie down with in her bed till she goes to sleep. If I'm lucky I'm done by 8.30, but the baby usually wakes up at least a couple of times so I'm up and down the stairs like a bloody yo-yo.
I'm just sick to bloody death of it, I know it will get better with time and I just need to ride it out but needed to vent. Sodding kids.