help !

[chelseyxxx]

My 11month old is soon to be 1 and still won't still through or alone!
From newborn to 3months she slept in her cot as normal but after splitting with her dad she's a nightmare do you think its me??? In the day she naps around half 11 until 1ish and them that's it til around 10 when I will have to sit with her in my bed for around an hour cuddling her and letting her have a bottle then, wakes atleast 2 times for a bottle tried water and dummy but will cry for hours until I make a bottle,if I put her in her cot after 10minutes she will cry until she is sick or get angry with herself and try to hold her breath meaning I'll put her to bed with me.. Don't know what I can do!!!!

NEED SLEEP

That sounds really tough. She only has one nap a day? Would you be able to try getting her to do two? she probably still needs two at this age, and I find that good naps help with night time sleep. Does she really only go to bed at 10/11pm?

now she's older and more aware it can be upsetting to change things but it sounds like you really need a break. Maybe try the 'no cry sleep solution'? Book and website.

Hope someone else comes along soon with more useful advice!

I agree, 2 naps might work better. She's possibly overtired and finding it difficult to fall asleep.