Help required. 2nd son always been a regular waker due to shatteredness we made our lives easier by putting him in with us when he wakes at 2am. We now want our bed back, I know this may involve some controlled crying. Any other experiences would be valued. He starts the night controlled crying usually in his cot in his own room. We do not want to keep having our little star fish with us, we sleep cautiously and wonder how come someone so small takes up so much room. Help!