DD is 13 weeks and whilst i never imagined I would bf on demand and co sleep, we do. Initially we set up a futon in spare room/office for DH as his job requires him bright and alert plus I found it easier not having to consider this during night feeds etc. however, now his back is suffering plus he misses his bed, our warmth etc. but dd has completely made herself at home - I love sleeping with her and the closeness and ease of bf it brings. DH won't come back while dd sleeps in our bed. It completely freaks him out as he is totally convinced she will be suffocated. He won't hear anything I say. So I'm torn between him and dd. It's not that he is resentful or making me choose... Not at all. It's just I feel sorry for him but at the same time can't see how I can put dd in her own room yet.
Any thoughts, advice or experiences on this?