Hi, my one year old REFUSES to sleep when he's at his nanny share. He started last week.
He has his own darkened, quiet room, his grobag, his teddy, everything he has at home, except mummy or daddy of course.
He is getting very grumpy and upset because he's so tired. She has managed to rock him to sleep once but it involved a lot of crying beforehand (hours of grumbling interspersed with getting v upset I think).
He seems fine with his nanny apart from this most of the time, he has refused a few meals but plays nicely and isn't upset when we leave etc.
At home he has two naps and puts himself to sleep 80% of the time without our help. He's never been a brilliant napper but will often do two hour-long naps.
I'm at my wit's end. I feel so guilty and I'm out of ideas.