So I have been doing gradual retreat sleep training with DD. I retreated extremely gradually as hate to hear her upset, but after weeks and weeks I was putting her down and going out the door. I was still hanging around outside her room though. Last night and tonight as soon as I have gone to exit the room she has started roaring and crying hysterically. Last night was also back to 2hr wake ups when we had been getting only 2 a night following the retreat success which was totally amazing. Why has it all gone wrong? What do I do next? Do I start over? Feeling a bit depressed about it all and just shouted at DH in a slightly deranged manner.....