About a month ago we started using the 'Cry It Out' method for out then 12MO. All the books said that after a week she would begin to get the message and she'd calm herself, stop the huge screaming fit and sleep herself.
This was 4weeks ago, our 13MO is STILL screaming - literally shaking when she's put down to sleep, this can go on for 2hrs? She won't stop crying when we go in to calm her or read her a story. She's left in her cot until she falls asleep from crying!
Can anybody help?
Please, I don't want hate about the 'cry it out' method, I myself didn't like the idea of it and refused to for a year - but if OH and I don't get time to ourselves we won't be together much longer!