So after months of waking and going in, ssssh, back to sleep darling, sometimes having to let him CIO, DS (11 months) has slept from 7 until almost 7 the last 2 weeks.
Tonight DH has a cough leftover from his man flu and stomped downstairs to look for cough mixture and I hear (after being woken several times already by said coughing) doors opening and shutting, blowing his nose, back up the stairs and clinking of child gate. And 2 minutes later yep, an histerical awake baby who is sitting up in his cot sobbing away and obviously confused at being awake.
I try to settle, have to change dirty nappy, try to eventually let him CIO and then feed him. He's now asleep in my arms and I need to move him back but I almost don't want to as every time I went back tinned DH kept saying 'sorry honey' so of course I feel obligated to say 'it's ok, go to sleep'. (Disclaimer: he did come out to try and help but I told him to go to bed as I was just too annoyed with him then).
So I know I'm being irrational, I know it probably won't undo all our good work, but grrrrrrr 