4 year old comes into our bed every night

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Anyone got any advice? DS has never been a great sleeper but no matter whether he goes down easily or not, naps in the day or not. He still likes a daytime nap, but even when we are able to keep him awake during the day, he still gets up in the middle of the night to come into our bed.

Because we both work and need to get a good night's sleep, we haven't worked as hard to find a solution as we could have. On most occasions, since we have a very big bed, it doesn't bother us, but DH is now really keen to get it sorted (I am lazier!).

Any advice very much appreciated

If DH is keen to get it sorted then DH needs to pick DS up when he comes into your room and take him back to his bed .

At 4 though he really shouldn't be having a sleep in the day, my DD started school a month after here 4th birthday so we don't have that option.