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Do You Read A Thread First?

16 replies

Earlybird · 20/04/2005 19:49

Just curious - do you read a thread first before posting on it? Or do you read the original query/comment and then respond.....

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UnconditionalLove · 20/04/2005 19:50

Bit of both really .....but mostly I do read the thread first

Twiglett · 20/04/2005 19:50

either, both, neither (as in sometimes I only respond to the title)

Whizzz · 20/04/2005 19:53

Depends how many posts there's been.

Miaou · 20/04/2005 19:56

If it's fairly long I will get the general gist of the way the conversation is going, then look out for subsequent posts by the original poster (particularly if it is a problem they are seeking advice on), before I post. If it's short then I will read the whole thing - mainly because I'm nosey!

Just as an aside, proportion of threads lurked to threads posted on - probably post on one out of 30-40 that I read!

LIZS · 20/04/2005 19:59

If it is long I'll usually read original post and first few replies then scan rest. If it is still of interest and contentious I'll read more before replying or not.

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flamesparrow · 20/04/2005 20:15

What Twiglett said!!!

MistressMary · 20/04/2005 20:16

I read it all except for the long ones , I then employ my scanning eyes.

Lucycat · 20/04/2005 20:21

What would I need a thread for? ahh read -no I'm illiterat me

darlingbud · 20/04/2005 20:27

TBH on the long ones I tend to read the first and maybe the last few as the really long ones can be a bit tedious and I don't have time to read all of it.

nightowl · 21/04/2005 04:45

mostly i do yes but cant be bothered and just skim the longer threads by which time theyve usually gone onto a completeley different subject or i repeat someone else..oh well.

Gobbledigook · 21/04/2005 06:28

I have made the mistake of just reading the original post then making my post only to then go back and read the others and find the conversation moved on from the original query!

Bit dangerous really as you could read a post and think it's not emotionally charged in any way and then read further up and find it is iykwim.

Kayleigh · 21/04/2005 06:42

I agree with Miaou about working out how convo has gone and checking the original posters subsequent posts. Would have to agree on number I post on too, very low in comparison to those I read/lurk on !

WideWebWitch · 21/04/2005 06:53

I sometimes do, sometimes don't, sometimes scan it. Depends on time really.

FairyMum · 21/04/2005 07:04

Yes, 9 out of 10. I am not only on MN to input my own comments. Although sometimes I skip a post or 2.

Davros · 21/04/2005 09:00

Usually read the whole thread but may skip one entirely if its too long. If I haven't read all of it I always say so if I post [halo emoticon]

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