I don't think anyone needs 'condemning' as such.
But smoking in pregnancy should not be deemed 'acceptable' by any stretch of the imagination.
When pg with DD I was a smoker, I cut down dramatically to the point that I'd have three or four cigarettes a week. I wasn't 'condemned' but nobody cared. No-one gave a fig that I was possibly endangering my baby. They may not have been encouraging me to smoke, but there was certainly no discouragement.
When the DSs were born, I didn't smoke with either of them. Partly due to the larger amount of information available, and partly because it was less socially acceptable.
Smoking being seen as something quite awful that could damage a baby compared to the whole 'turn a blind eye' crap that is spouted all too often is necessary to reduce numbers. Just as with drink-driving, it needs to be socially unacceptable, which in turn, I suppose is a form of condemnation.
We can't go about tip-toeing around subjects for fear of offending people. Smoking has dangers, putting your baby at risk of these avoidable dangers should never be accepted.
As for the misogynistic viewpoint, just because something fits in with a misogynistic viewpoint doesn't make it automatically wrong.