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Private messaging disappeared/ disabled?

21 replies

Saucery · 16/02/2026 16:35

Am I missing something really obvious or has the Private Messaging facility gone? It’s not at the top of the page on the right hand side any more on my iPad and it connects to nothing on my phone (Android, Google Pixel) via the app, although the icon is still there.
Has it been disabled for some reason i.e. dodgy messages being sent again etc?

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Blondeshavemorefun · 16/02/2026 16:46

Mine is there

Saucery · 16/02/2026 16:49

Thanks @Blondeshavemorefun, there’s just a space where mine used to be. I hardly use it, but I’m used to it being there iyswim. Strange!

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MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 16/02/2026 16:50

I still have it!

Saucery · 16/02/2026 16:51

Android app version now connecting, still no icon on iPad.

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LilyMumsnet · 16/02/2026 17:02

Hi OP

Thanks for flagging this.

We don't currently have PMs as a feature in the app - and it sounds like when you open a link, it opens up in the app automatically. We know this is frustrating, but you might need to uninstall the app and then check your private messages. Could you give this a go and let us know if this is the issue?

Saucery · 16/02/2026 17:32

Thanks @LilyMumsnet ! It’s not the app on my iPad, it’s the (Desktop?) version reached through a browser (DuckDuckGo atm). I’ll try logging out and seeing if that brings the icon back, though.

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Saucery · 16/02/2026 17:34

Just checked and Mumsnet app not installed on iPad at all, so it can’t be opening up in that automatically.

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Saucery · 16/02/2026 17:53

A lovely poster just sent me a message and my icon with message count popped up. Once I’d read the message the icon disappeared so there’s obviously a glitch on the browser system. Can’ t get into Settings either, I’ve realised, so I won’t be able to switch names or log out.

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Blondeshavemorefun · 16/02/2026 18:16

Tho my icon isn’t there unless I have a message That’s normal

I just click on white person and the below pops out

but it’s always been like that

Private messaging disappeared/ disabled?
Saucery · 16/02/2026 18:22

I haven’t got the person at all unless a message is there. I’ll hit the cache clearing flame on my browser later, once I’ve found my password Grin
I switched to DuckDuckGo because MN clogs other browsers up, shame it’s happening now on there too.

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Saucery · 16/02/2026 19:18

I’ve tried it on another browser and icon is there. Is it something to do with using DuckDuckGo?

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Blondeshavemorefun · 16/02/2026 20:54

Saucery · 16/02/2026 19:18

I’ve tried it on another browser and icon is there. Is it something to do with using DuckDuckGo?

Nope Just tried duck as have that for a second email account and my white person is there

must be your account

GaelsBlue · 16/02/2026 22:24

Mine doesn't show on duck duck go either.

SwedishEdith · 16/02/2026 22:29

I noticed this yesterday. It only reappears if there's a notification. Also not on the app and using DuckDuckGo.

GaelsBlue · 19/02/2026 18:17

Do you have an update on this please@LilyMumsnet? Without it we can't namechange, update any settings, log out or send PMs.

TheAutumnCrow · 19/02/2026 18:22

GaelsBlue · 19/02/2026 18:17

Do you have an update on this please@LilyMumsnet? Without it we can't namechange, update any settings, log out or send PMs.

You should still be able to do it the long way round.

At the top of the page you should see

Talk > Site Stuff ⬇(down arrow)

Click on the down arrow

Click on Customise

Click on Account

Saucery · 19/02/2026 18:37

Thank you @TheAutumnCrow, I didn’t know that was there!
Would be good to have a response from MNHQ but at least there’s a workaround.

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TheAutumnCrow · 19/02/2026 18:44

Saucery · 19/02/2026 18:37

Thank you @TheAutumnCrow, I didn’t know that was there!
Would be good to have a response from MNHQ but at least there’s a workaround.

Have you tried it yet? Did it work for you?🤞

As you’ll have gathered, I’ve got the same problem of the disappeared little white figure on the right! (iPhone, DuckDuckGo.) I had to figure out an alternative to do a name change.

Saucery · 19/02/2026 21:04

Yes, it worked fine, thanks! No access to PMs but I hardly use that anyway. I’d love to know what’s blocking it on certain browsers, but doesn’t look like any answers are forthcoming.

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TheMatildaEffect · 19/02/2026 21:13

I've lost mine as well, on duckduckgo. It disappeared a few days ago. Although it seems to reappear whenever I get a message.

GaelsBlue · 19/02/2026 22:03

TheAutumnCrow · 19/02/2026 18:22

You should still be able to do it the long way round.

At the top of the page you should see

Talk > Site Stuff ⬇(down arrow)

Click on the down arrow

Click on Customise

Click on Account

Thank you so much! Flowers

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