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Racist thread

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ThejoyofNC · 10/08/2025 19:34

There is a thread running in AIBU where people are being openly and freely racist. You've already deleted several posts on there so you're aware of it. Why are you allowing it to run?

Also why do you allow racism against travellers on here?

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MrsSkylerWhite · 11/08/2025 21:56

MrsSkylerWhite · 11/08/2025 21:48

I have no idea why those quotes appeared in my reply @PhilippaGeorgiou .🥴

I suppose those Neanderthal genes will out.

So, @PhilippaGeorgiou . To clarify, the many dozens of posts on this thread that appeared on my screen did not in fact appear on my reply to you on MN.
I obviously share more than the average 2% 🥴
I’ll get my pelt …

MrsSkylerWhite · 11/08/2025 22:09

MyDeftHedgehog · 11/08/2025 21:42

Good man who called one of his constituents a bigot 😉

Leaping in. Can’t be arsed to reprise the thread.
Guessing you mean Gordon Boroen?

Well, she was 🤷‍♀️

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 11/08/2025 22:13

ThejoyofNC · 11/08/2025 20:01

The problem is that you've had countless positive ones and you just don't know it. We live in every part of the country. Why would you notice normal people being normal? A family of white people going about their daily lives doesn't attract attention does it? You only notice the bad.

So why don’t the good ones in that community call out the bad ones.

MrsSkylerWhite · 11/08/2025 22:14

Boroen?! 🤯
Brown! Damn those (increasingly obvious, it appears) Neanderthal genes.
Or maybe predictive text? Know which I prefer.

PandoraSocks · 11/08/2025 22:31

MrsSkylerWhite · 11/08/2025 22:14

Boroen?! 🤯
Brown! Damn those (increasingly obvious, it appears) Neanderthal genes.
Or maybe predictive text? Know which I prefer.

🤣

Sparklybutold · 11/08/2025 22:41

PhilippaGeorgiou · 11/08/2025 21:07

A healthy community is not a community that others people who are different based on bigotry and prejudice. When you apply a negative characteristic to a group of people, or most people within a specific group of people, based solely on their ethnicity or skin colour, that is racism. It's really simple.

If people keep "censoring" you and people you know, it is perhaps time to wonder whether it isn't you that is the problem.

The censorship I am referring to is the chilling effect that has been evident in so many places up and down the country. The topic I am referring to is the impact of gender ideology which has impacted thousands of women. But that’s a topic for another board.

What gender ideology and this thread have in common however is the demand to censor debate, even when it’s uncomfortable. Surely we have seen how damaging this is? When thoughts and behaviours go unexamined, hatred and misunderstandings can thrive. By censoring something doesn’t mean that thoughts magically disappear - instead they find a way to connect elsewhere - think of incels, reform, white supremacists etc… and how they have grown and become stronger.

cardibach · 11/08/2025 22:43

Sparklybutold · 11/08/2025 20:06

The problem here is there are groups of people who hold views and behaviours that are inconsistent and in complete opposition to ours - to point this out is not racist but stating fact.

Who is included in this ‘ours’?
I think I probably have different views from yours - indeed views in opposition. I suspect the same is true in every racial and social group. Deciding that all people of one race/religion/culture share the same views which are in some way a threat to your own is where it becomes racist.

PandoraSocks · 11/08/2025 22:44

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 11/08/2025 22:13

So why don’t the good ones in that community call out the bad ones.

Do you ask that of all communities?

Sparklybutold · 11/08/2025 22:44

MiloMinderbinder925 · 11/08/2025 21:15

You're cherry picking Western values which I see a lot. People loudly proclaiming their allegiance to Western values don't seem to believe in the rule of law, human rights, tolerance or equality. Free speech seems to involve braying to anyone who'll listen about their bigotry.

Free speech is absolutely not about being given a free pass for just talking about what you perceive as bigotry. Free speech means the right to express your thoughts, opinions, and beliefs without fear of government punishment. It doesn’t mean you can say anything without consequences—especially if it’s harmful, threatening, or breaks the law. It’s about protecting open debate.

MrsSkylerWhite · 11/08/2025 22:46

Sparklybutold · 11/08/2025 22:41

The censorship I am referring to is the chilling effect that has been evident in so many places up and down the country. The topic I am referring to is the impact of gender ideology which has impacted thousands of women. But that’s a topic for another board.

What gender ideology and this thread have in common however is the demand to censor debate, even when it’s uncomfortable. Surely we have seen how damaging this is? When thoughts and behaviours go unexamined, hatred and misunderstandings can thrive. By censoring something doesn’t mean that thoughts magically disappear - instead they find a way to connect elsewhere - think of incels, reform, white supremacists etc… and how they have grown and become stronger.

This is a thread about racism, mate.

Sparklybutold · 11/08/2025 22:54

BIWI · 11/08/2025 21:35

Those of you on the right, especially Reform voters, who wang on about wanting ‘freedom of speech’, and objecting to anyone here who is saying that MN shouldn’t allow racist posts - you need to understand that we do have freedom of speech in the UK, but it comes with certain responsibilities. You simply cannot say anything that you wish, and then defend it by saying it’s freedom of speech.

What does the law say about freedom of speech?
The right to freedom of speech is protected under common law in the UK. It is also guaranteed under Article 10 of the European Convention on Human Rights (ECHR), where “everyone has the right to freedom of expression”. This right is incorporated into UK law by the Human Rights Act (HRA) 1998, where the HRA requires the courts to interpret legislation in a way which is compatible with the Article 10 ECHR right so far as it is possible to do so.

Under the Article 10 right, freedom of expression includes the right “to hold opinions and to receive and impart information and ideas without interference by public authority”. This means that both the public and the press are able to share what they think, feel and believe without censorship, even where the expression of their views may shock, disturb or offend the deeply-held beliefs of others.

This is not, however, an absolute right. It carries with it duties and responsibilities, and can be “subject to formalities, conditions, restrictions or penalties”. Still, any limitations on the right to free speech must be both “prescribed by law” and “necessary in a democratic society”. These limitations must also be proportionate.

Subject to these conditions, Article 10 goes on to specify the limited circumstances in which the right to free speech can be legitimately curtailed. These include where it is in the interests of national security or public safety; for the prevention of crime and disorder; for the prevention of disclosure of information received in confidence; for the protection of health or morals; for the protection of the rights and reputation of others; as well as for maintaining the authority and impartiality of the judiciary.

From: https://www.lawble.co.uk/freedom-of-speech/
What is Freedom of Speech in the UK? - Lawble
Freedom of speech forms a fundamental part of our democracy. The UK public and press enjoy some of the greatest freedoms of anyone in the world to express their opinions and ideas. The following guide on the rules relating to freedom of speech in the U...
https://www.lawble.co.uk/freedom-of-speech/

The issue I am seeing again and again here is the idea that it’s reform voters etc who bang on about free speech. It’s not. I believe in free speech exactly as you’ve quoted, however in real life and further supported by law this then becomes more complex when we are considering the protected characteristic of the right to a belief.

Even though I may disagree with things a reform voter may say… this doesn’t mean I want to censor it. Instead I want to understand what’s behind it. What’s driving it. I believe if this can be reciprocated then things can evolve to a more respected mutual understanding. Whilst I may not agree with someone I respect the fact that they have a right to their opinion, just like I do.

i am also aware I am talking about this removed from what was and would be considered racist, however I do believe that we find ourselves in a situation where the word has become so weaponised it instead breeds more divide and less actual dialogue.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 11/08/2025 22:55

Sparklybutold · 11/08/2025 22:44

Free speech is absolutely not about being given a free pass for just talking about what you perceive as bigotry. Free speech means the right to express your thoughts, opinions, and beliefs without fear of government punishment. It doesn’t mean you can say anything without consequences—especially if it’s harmful, threatening, or breaks the law. It’s about protecting open debate.

I've given you information on prejudice and racism as defined by the UN, so we're not talking about what I perceive as bigotry, we're talking about well defined racism.

Western values include tolerance and that doesn't mean tolerance for racism. You insinuated that it's not possible for you to discuss issues without being racist and we have free speech therefore that's your right.

I'm sure you're aware that disinformation, inflammatory language and racism can cause harm. The riots last year were fueled by racist and inflammatory language and people tried to burn the occupants of hotels alive. That kind of language is harmful, sows division and makes people feel unsafe.

Sparklybutold · 11/08/2025 22:56

MrsSkylerWhite · 11/08/2025 22:46

This is a thread about racism, mate.

I know that but as I pointed out - there is a common ground… the lower threshold for when someone demands something to be deleted because they have deemed it racist, instead of enquiring why someone feels that way.

Sparklybutold · 11/08/2025 23:00

MiloMinderbinder925 · 11/08/2025 22:55

I've given you information on prejudice and racism as defined by the UN, so we're not talking about what I perceive as bigotry, we're talking about well defined racism.

Western values include tolerance and that doesn't mean tolerance for racism. You insinuated that it's not possible for you to discuss issues without being racist and we have free speech therefore that's your right.

I'm sure you're aware that disinformation, inflammatory language and racism can cause harm. The riots last year were fueled by racist and inflammatory language and people tried to burn the occupants of hotels alive. That kind of language is harmful, sows division and makes people feel unsafe.

The reasons for the riots last year are complex and far exceed the brief explanation you have given. They were decades in the making. People were angry, they are still angry.

MyDeftHedgehog · 11/08/2025 23:01

MrsSkylerWhite · 11/08/2025 22:09

Leaping in. Can’t be arsed to reprise the thread.
Guessing you mean Gordon Boroen?

Well, she was 🤷‍♀️

She expressed an opinion about open door immigration,

Mr Brown apologised for his comment

Livelovebehappy · 11/08/2025 23:02

I think by allowing people to debate issues rationally, you can educate yourself. I’ve been on posts where I’ve been adamant about a certain perspective, but by the end I’ve started to understand the opposition’s stance. By censoring certain topics, people are never going to hear both sides, as it’s all shrouded in secrecy and misconceptions. Obviously you’re going to get very extreme views, from the very left, to the very right, but you can choose to ignore those views if you don’t agree with them.

cardibach · 11/08/2025 23:03

Sparklybutold · 11/08/2025 23:00

The reasons for the riots last year are complex and far exceed the brief explanation you have given. They were decades in the making. People were angry, they are still angry.

And the anger has been fuelled by lies and mis/disinformation.

cardibach · 11/08/2025 23:03

Livelovebehappy · 11/08/2025 23:02

I think by allowing people to debate issues rationally, you can educate yourself. I’ve been on posts where I’ve been adamant about a certain perspective, but by the end I’ve started to understand the opposition’s stance. By censoring certain topics, people are never going to hear both sides, as it’s all shrouded in secrecy and misconceptions. Obviously you’re going to get very extreme views, from the very left, to the very right, but you can choose to ignore those views if you don’t agree with them.

I don’t want anyone to be able to persuade others to be racist thoigh. Especially not by telling them lies to make them scared and angry.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 11/08/2025 23:03

Sparklybutold · 11/08/2025 23:00

The reasons for the riots last year are complex and far exceed the brief explanation you have given. They were decades in the making. People were angry, they are still angry.

The riots were fueled by decades of inflammatory language and racism. In fact, people were imprisoned for inciting racial hatred. Are you suggesting the riots weren't racist?

Zonder · 11/08/2025 23:06

Livelovebehappy · 11/08/2025 23:02

I think by allowing people to debate issues rationally, you can educate yourself. I’ve been on posts where I’ve been adamant about a certain perspective, but by the end I’ve started to understand the opposition’s stance. By censoring certain topics, people are never going to hear both sides, as it’s all shrouded in secrecy and misconceptions. Obviously you’re going to get very extreme views, from the very left, to the very right, but you can choose to ignore those views if you don’t agree with them.

Surely it must be possible for people with even quite extreme views to be able to express them without being racist?

If not, then that says a lot about those people.

MrsSkylerWhite · 11/08/2025 23:11

MyDeftHedgehog · 11/08/2025 23:01

She expressed an opinion about open door immigration,

Mr Brown apologised for his comment

Indeed. Both statements correct.

Well, he would, wouldn’t he? Mid-campaign.

PandoraSocks · 11/08/2025 23:15

MyDeftHedgehog · 11/08/2025 23:01

She expressed an opinion about open door immigration,

Mr Brown apologised for his comment

No she complained about Eastern European immigrants. She said:

"You can't say anything about the immigrants because you're saying that you're … but all these eastern European what are coming in, where are they flocking from?"

Of course Brown apologised. He had to.

PrincessofWells · 11/08/2025 23:23

So I've emailed Gordon Brown a screenshot of @MyDeftHedgehog post at the bottom of page 2 along with a link to the page on the basis it is untrue and probably libellous. Tbh I'm absolutely fed up with stupid people and sites publishing untruths about people and events and refusing to take them down when it's pointed out they are lies and expecting to get away with it.

Livelovebehappy · 11/08/2025 23:27

cardibach · 11/08/2025 23:03

I don’t want anyone to be able to persuade others to be racist thoigh. Especially not by telling them lies to make them scared and angry.

But most people aren’t going to be persuaded by random people on a discussion site to become racist. Equally nor are people going to have quite often valid concerns dismissed due to potential accusations of racism. There has to be a meeting of minds somewhere in the middle, where maybe both sides can appreciate where the other person is coming from. That only works of course if people listen to each other and don’t hold extreme views. I’ve seen some really good discussions on MN on contentious subjects, so it can be done.

cardibach · 11/08/2025 23:33

Livelovebehappy · 11/08/2025 23:27

But most people aren’t going to be persuaded by random people on a discussion site to become racist. Equally nor are people going to have quite often valid concerns dismissed due to potential accusations of racism. There has to be a meeting of minds somewhere in the middle, where maybe both sides can appreciate where the other person is coming from. That only works of course if people listen to each other and don’t hold extreme views. I’ve seen some really good discussions on MN on contentious subjects, so it can be done.

Racism is an extreme view, so you admit yourself what you hope will happen can’t happen.

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