Just wanted to mention people's anonymity and user names etc- last few weeks I'm getting posts in my Facebook feed of popular threads and I've not 'liked' mumsnet on FB- so other Random folk must be getting this too who aren't necessarily on mumsnet. Hence if you don't want anyone and his mother realising it's your post thought I would mention that if you 'start 'a thread (it's just initial post that's on FB, not any comments ) to be careful if your username or detail in your initial post are identifying.