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How can I report a private message?

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Soubriquet · 12/07/2020 18:40

I’m sure it’s just a bot but in case it’s not, I’ve received a begging PM

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MsSweary · 12/07/2020 18:46

So have I, came here to start a thread.

Soubriquet · 12/07/2020 18:48

“ Hello to you!
I tried post my message but it was deleted by administrator of the site. So, I send you personal message because of it and hope for your understanding.
Sorry for my English. I'm from Russia. My name is Tatiana. Last name is Kolmogorova. I am a single mom. I have a son 4.5 years old. He is a very beautiful and smart child. His name is Aram. The father of the child left me when he found out about pregnancy. He was not my husband, but we have known each other for many years. But I had no doubt that I would save the baby. With his birth, my life has changed. I began to feel love for people, as never before, and for children, in particular. The birth of a baby is a miracle and a gift of the God!
I'm in love with my child! I love him very much! He's my gold, sun, sky, air and my whole world! I also love my cat. She is 8 years old. I hope she lives up to 30 years. The Burmese breed is a long-liver. Her name is Desta from the word Destiny.
I lost my father in 2008. I live with my mother, with a baby and a cat. We don't have our own apartment. We rent an apartment in the suburbs of Moscow. 2 bedroom flat.
I delayed the payment of the rent for 3 months because I lost my job during the coronavirus. Now I'm looking for a new job. The landlord can no longer wait so long. We will be on the street. I don't even know what to do. I'm crying.
The child has my last name. I waited 3 years for the conscience of the father of the child to wake up. But it didn't. I went to court to receive child support. The baby's father brought a fake certificate (evidence, document, income statement) to the court about his income. The court accepted it. But I know that it's fake. I challenged in court, but they refused me. The father of the child pays very little and not every month. Not even enough to feed a child. Impossible to live. He never visits his son. Doesn't take part in education.
If you have the opportunity and desire (I mean if you can and want). we will accept help in any size, which is not a pity. I don't know how to do this and I found the Paysend website and the App in the AppStore - Paysend. Low commission - 1 pound, 1.50 eur or $2 for international money transfers, regardless of the amount sent. But if you know another way - you are free to choose.
All that I wrote is from deep despair. Please, understand my despair. Don't judge me, just understand. There is no way. Please, help. I guess I'm too emotional. I turned to the world for help. My card number is provides card number
My WhatsApp provides number
Thank you for your help!
God bless you and grant you health and serenity!”

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HappyHammy · 12/07/2020 18:48

Can you just report your post to mn and ask them to investigate

HappyHammy · 12/07/2020 18:50

Ive reported it to mnhq for you

Soubriquet · 12/07/2020 18:50

They usually see it pretty quick on site stuff but I’ve reported it anyway

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Soubriquet · 12/07/2020 18:51

Same Grin

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MsSweary · 12/07/2020 19:04

That's the same one I've had.

CarolineMumsnet · 12/07/2020 19:14

Hello

Thanks for this and for the reports and sorry that you've had this pop up in your PMs.

We've hopefully now stopped any more of these PMs coming through and we think we've managed to remove the PMs that did come through from everyone's inbox. The deletion message you see in your inbox might read that the PM was removed at the poster's requests - this is a niggle with the system when we do a mass delete.

Thanks again for flagging. Flowers

Soubriquet · 12/07/2020 19:16

Thank you very much

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YoureAllABunchOfBastards · 12/07/2020 19:26

Yup, I've had that as well.

HelpMeh · 12/07/2020 21:27

@CarolineMumsnet I just received the same message (within last 10 minutes). I don't know how to report from my inbox though.

WorraLiberty · 12/07/2020 21:33

Report isn't working for me.

When I click it, the message just gets bigger and won't let me scroll. Using desktop, Google Chrome if that helps.

How can I report a private message?
Mydogisthebestest · 12/07/2020 21:34

I had it too but it’s gone now. Thanks!

DobbyTheHouseElk · 12/07/2020 21:36

I’ve had one too.

ActuallyItsEugene · 12/07/2020 21:39

Was the username Asefullo?

If so, I had one too.

DobbyTheHouseElk · 12/07/2020 21:40

That’s who mine was from.

WorraLiberty · 12/07/2020 21:42

@ActuallyItsEugene

Was the username Asefullo?

If so, I had one too.

Yes, except I read it as Arse Fellow Blush
lifesalongsong · 12/07/2020 22:22

I've just had the messages, from AsIhavegoth.

I don't think the block is foolproof

DawnMumsnet · 12/07/2020 22:49

Sorry, all. We've banned all three of these dodgy spammers now (including Arse Fellow) Grin and have removed all of the PMs.

We're really sorry that so many of you have received these spam messages tonight - this is absolutely not what our PM system is for. We're doing what we can to block any further attempts.

ActuallyItsEugene · 12/07/2020 23:34

@WorraLiberty Arse Fellow GrinGrinGrin

LillianBland · 12/07/2020 23:37

Ohh! Is that the message that was deleted from my box? I did wonder.

Ignoble · 12/07/2020 23:45

Mine was from Harretyun.

LillianBland · 13/07/2020 00:21

@Ignoble

Mine was from Harretyun.
Mine too. I was so disappointed to find it wasn’t a long lost relative or foreign prince that had left me millions. 🤷🏻‍♀️
BertieBotts · 13/07/2020 07:34

I got one from Arsefellow too :o

I did enjoy the inclusion of the cat.

Soubriquet · 13/07/2020 07:48

Was it all the same message just different user names?

Must be desperate for money to include the cat

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