So where does this allowance to involve outside authorities end then?
Right now someone says that a poster (we don’t know who they are, where they live, what their name is only that they claim they’re going to kill themselves) is going to commit suicide and mn send the police round. Do they draw a distinction? First-time poster perhaps would that count? What if it’s the partner of someone who is in an abusive relationship who sets up an account in their name, makes the suicide threat on here and bingo, the police come round and they have mental health concerns on the record for the residence dispute. Remember there are a lot of posters on here who are in abusive relationships and come here for support. It wouldn’t take a genius to work out that this kind of system could be used against them by an abusive partner or ex partner.
Or what if someone claims to be being abused? Or what if they claim their partner is abusing the kids, right here, right now?
The absolute reality is that any post on Mumsnet is just words on a screen. There is absolutely no way of knowing that a poster is who they say they are. Hundreds and hundreds of posts are deleted on a daily basis on the basis they are believed to not be genuine. So why is it that it must be assumed that a poster threatening suicide is both genuine and also that it’s ok to involve the police and keep the thread running for hours and hours despite the advice and guidance from professionals in this area while in the meantime triggering other posters who may also feel suicidal but who won’t reach out in case they too are prevented.
Remember that when people don’t reach out it’s usually because they don’t want to be stopped.