Where's the deletion message

[GreenSeededGrape]

For the thread about the step son ruining the OPs relationship or do you just zap now for the sake of it?

The OP wasn't getting the replies she wanted so it went poof

Hi GreenSeededGrape - we're not sure exactly which thread you mean so do send us a link if you'd like to.

We don't think it's even possible to delete a thread without a deletion message so we're surprised you can't see one..

Let us know how you're accessing the site and we'll happily take a look for you.

It was in Relationships title was something like SS is ruining our relationship.

The OP said she was going to get organised and then it was gone.

I access MN through the mobile site.

And I can't send you a link because it's gone

That should say OP said she was going to get thread deleted (not organised!) and then it was gone.

Was it this one OP?

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/stepparenting/3205921-Overindulged-21-yr-old-stepson-ruining-relationship

Hi Green,

Sorry to ask, but are you sure it's in relationships?

No Speedy not that one.

Can't say I'm 100% sure it was in Relationships, only pretty certain.

And it's not in my 'I'm on' list, it's disappeared.

There was around 5-10 replies.

Ok so it's a mystery. I just wondered if MNHQ was zapping without deletion messages. The thread I think was a bit trollish so probably best it disappeared.

Look in 'Watching' as that's where mine go to die. I think I know the one you mean - I think the op asked for it to be removed.

That's where it is AsA, thanks!

It usually shows up still in I'm on so apologies MNHQ for thinking the worst of you