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buckbeak · 03/02/2018 23:04

Mnhq please please can you reconsider your stance on suicidal messages on these boards. I know you've taken advice from the Samaritans, but I've been suicidal before, there is no way I could have phoned and spoken to someone that way, and the email service for the Samaritans isn't an instant service.

People are posting here to talk, and it upsets me so much then the posts are deleted immediately. They are crying out in the moment of need, I don't think deleting the posts is helping them at all.

Please don't think i don't respect everything else you do on this site, it's just this one subject that really gets to me.

If someone wants to talk when they are in that situation, it should be encouraged, not told to phone the Samaritans and then deleted, it's not one size fits all, not everyone wants to talk out loud to someone.

Please reconsider this.

LornaMumsnet · 05/02/2018 11:38

Hello all

Thanks for all your feedback on this. As mentioned above, we took advice from MIND and the Samaritans on this difficult issue, as we were very aware that we didn't have the necessary expertise.

Those organisations recommended that we remove posts which mention a proposed method, because of the possibility that this might tip others who are also feeling suicidal into acting on those feelings. So now, if someone does this, we post a link to our mental health advice and to the Samaritans, and we remove the thread. We also get in touch with them directly with the same links and advice about getting RL help.

If the OP doesn't mention a method, we tend to post the same links on the thread, but leave it up - and of course, we keep a very close eye from that point.

We're in the process of talking with Mind now so we may well have some updates soon. Flowers

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