So there are Trolls here also...
Whilst I appreciate that not everyone here is a troll and some people are just looking or providing advice there seems to be an unhealthy attitude in some people.
I suppose the measure of any response would be “would you say that to your parent that way” or “would you say that face to face”.
The measure of your vitriol is the mirror with which you see yourself and an attempt to hide your inner pain.
We are all just a human family but the screen, keyboard and relative anonymity here tends to breed an unhealthy environment.
I urge you to see the actual person behind the words, even if you disagree with the person I urge you to try a middle way.
Free yourself, find recovery, heal and start living life more abundant than you can even imagine.
This is my first and last post as I have moved on.