I asked a question to the group yesterday on the au pair site under the name Iikabo. I was hoping for some advice on what to do as am at a loss, and in a situation I have not had to deal with before. My post has disappeared and my original log-in no longer works. I have been a member for nearly 10 years and this is only the second time I have asked a question. What did I do so wrong? It would be good to know so I can keep on using mumsnet and asking for help as I see others doing. Is there an administrator that can help please?