And if not, could they maybe be so?
I'm now a bit freaked out about posting more personal things because the last time I did, it showed up in Trending. I immediately stopped replying because I know DH gets all the Mumsnet emails and it dealt with our relationship and could be potentially identifying. I trust him enough to not trawl MN for my threads, but he usually does follow the links in the emails.
When it was the Discussions of the Day in the emails I felt more comfortable as I figured MNHQ wouldn't pick a personal relationship asking for advice as something to email to everyone, but it's making me hesitate to ask for advice now.