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Season's (well nearly) greetings, and welcome to the MUMSNET SECRET SANTA 2014!

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SantaSandyMumsnet · 02/10/2014 13:14

Sleepy reindeer are waking, Christmas elves are busy mulling wine, and we at MNHQ - and you lovely lot - need to get cracking. Yes, we know it's only October, but the Mumsnet Secret Santa waits for no one

For those of you who are new to our seasonal spreading of goodwill, the idea is that Mumsnetters nominate fellow Mumsnetters whom they feel particularly deserve some festive cheer to receive an anonymous Christmas present. We also open a thread asking for gift donations, and match these to the nominees as part of a HUGE anonymous Secret Santa operation. For more on how the whole thing works (clue: as smoothly as a rocket-powered sleigh), take a look here.

This Christmas tradition was a scheme cooked up by Mumsnetters themselves, and it has thrived over the years due to their generosity (you can find out more on how it came about over here). It generally goes without any major hitches , but there are just a few rules and regs which it's worth brushing up on.

And now, to business. The nominations page is live, and you can add your nominee's name at any time from now until 29th October, when the page will close. We'll then drop all nominees a line to ask for their addresses, the ages/sex of their DC, if they have them, and any further family details they're happy to share with us and their donor. This information needs to be with us by 7th November.

The donations thread is also live, so please pop on and let us know if you'd like to make someone's Christmas a little bit more special by showing them that they're in your thoughts. In terms of what to donate, we love vouchers because they're easy to match, but we're delighted with all sorts. Remember, nothing is too small, and please don't worry if you're thinking of donating a gift with a low cash value, because money is really not what this is about.

We thank you from the bottom of our hearts for your awesome generosity. You amaze us every year.

It's all now in your capables, but if you have any queries we're happy to hear from you at [email protected].

'And the bells were ringing out for Christmas day.'

SantaSandyMumsnet · 14/10/2014 14:44

Greeting everyone,

So lovely to see you all. The nomination and donation pages are filling up fast! It's heartwarming to watch.

Any queries, just to be sure they're not missed, please mail [email protected]

RebeccaMumsnet · 14/10/2014 20:28

@xalyssx

I can't remember my nominee's current nickname, but I can remember their old one. Is that okay to use?

YY xalyssx, we will find them under any name they have used old or new, so nominate away.

The number of nominations doesn't matter, some people get several and others just one, if there are enough donations everyone will get something. Xmas Grin

SantaSandyMumsnet · 15/10/2014 10:15

You lovely lot are amazing, thank you so much for all your nominations and donations.

I'll take all the gin and Thanks I can get please, and yes, what a cool job!

The thread was started (and then suspended) much earlier than the day it went live because we like to get things organised and, let's face it, we're keen!

A warm welcome please to the missing apostrophe

Any queries just mail [email protected]

Season's (well nearly) greetings, and welcome to the MUMSNET SECRET SANTA 2014!

SantaSandyMumsnet · 15/10/2014 17:30

@startwig1982

Have donated but can I add extras once I know details of who's receiving it?

Yes, you can add as much as you like to your donation once you know the details. But try not to change the origional pledge please because we will have taken this into consideration when we do the matching.

SantaSandyMumsnet · 16/10/2014 09:29

@EhricLovesTheBhrothers

I've just realised in my nomination I didn't put anything about the family composition ie how many kids and their ages. Doh. Can I do that when you email me?

We ask about this when we mail the nominated MNers. We give them an opportunity to let us know any facts they're happy to share with us and their donor.

SantaSandyMumsnet · 17/10/2014 11:47

@frankie80

can we nominate someone who doesn't post on MN but lurks a lot? I'm guessing the answer is 'no'

A MNer does need to have been a member for six months before any nomination can be accepted. Mail us at [email protected] and we'll happily take a look.

SantaSandyMumsnet · 17/10/2014 11:52

@ThreeQuartersEmpty

frankie the point of Secret Santa, as said in the OP, is for MNers to nominate fellow MNers. The reason the six months rule was introduced was after the thread last year that I won't bring up again. I'm sure we all know someone in RL who would benefit from a surprise gift, but that's not the point of the MN Santa.

I've reported your post and hopefully MNHQ will clarify.

Thanks for reporting. We've posted, but as always if anyone has any questions, however small, please mail us at [email protected].

SantaSandyMumsnet · 21/10/2014 09:34

Morning all,

A big hug and thanks to everyone answering questions on the thread. You all know your stuff!

Any doubts about how this all works please email [email protected]

Season's (well nearly) greetings, and welcome to the MUMSNET SECRET SANTA 2014!

SantaSandyMumsnet · 22/10/2014 11:05

After the feedback we got from MNers about the Secret Santa we felt it important to take a more discreet route this year.
We've stickied the thread in Active and lots of other subjects, (we have a rolling system in Active now so it is possible to miss seeing it, but it does have a slot).
We also had it as a DOD for while and may do again, but we do refresh our DODs regularly.
We also included details of the Secret Santa in our Parenting News mailshoot last week.

DeckTheHallsWithAliceMumsnet · 27/10/2014 15:49

DeckTheHallsWithAliceMumsnet · 27/10/2014 16:54

Apols all Blush just heard back from SantaSandy and you do have to be a member for at least 6 months in order to nominate. Sorry for any inconvenience

SantaSandyMumsnet · 29/10/2014 10:44

@RatherBeOnThePiste

Morning Brew

I bring you Santa Slug, something you didn't know you wanted, until now
Grin

HaHahaha. This has made my day!

SantaSandyMumsnet · 29/10/2014 11:24

HEADS UP EVERYONE!
Today is your last chance to make a nomination. The nomination page closes at 3pm, oh yes.

You'll all be pleased to hear that DeckTheHallsWithAlice has now been allowed off the naughty step and back to full Elf duty (we ARE keeping a close eye on the festive gin though). And just to be clear, the MNer you wish to nominate does need to have been a member of MN for six months.

And remember the donation page is still open!

Season's (well nearly) greetings, and welcome to the MUMSNET SECRET SANTA 2014!

SantaSandyMumsnet · 29/10/2014 11:55

Errr, there's been a giant misunderstanding here and both DeckTheHallsWithAlice AND SantaSandy are now fighting over the biscuits on the naughty step. No more gin for us (mainly SantaSandy)

You can make a nomination at any stage in your membership, there is no time limit.

SantaSandyMumsnet · 29/10/2014 12:53

[quote Galena]**

Sorry...

SantaSandyMumsnet · 29/10/2014 12:57

@SagaNorensLeatherTrousers

Galena I think the 'hi' was cut off because SantaSandy needed a hiccup...from the gin.

SantaSandyMumsnet · 30/10/2014 10:10

It feels so festive this morning and I promise I'm avoiding the gin today.
Congratulations to all you lovely lot who have been nominated, you now know who you are!
Nominations are now closed, so anyone who missed it this year will have the opportunity to contribute next year.

BUT hey, you can still make a donation. To donate just go here!

Any nominee who has had difficulties with the links in their mail, please could you give it another go? And as a heads up, you need to be logged in to MN before you click through to the information page.

As always any queries we are very happy to answer, just drop us a mail at [email protected].

With love from the MNHQ Elves
(noticed the knitted theme going on here - cute eh?)

Season's (well nearly) greetings, and welcome to the MUMSNET SECRET SANTA 2014!

SantaSandyMumsnet · 04/11/2014 10:37

Ho Ho Ho

Calling all nominees. Xmas Grin

Only a few days left to enter your details, so please go to the nomination page here and let us know your address and any other information you're happy to share.
Then we can put you on the matching spreadsheet. (this link will only work if you've been nominated and you're logged in to Mumsnet.)

Thanks

Season's (well nearly) greetings, and welcome to the MUMSNET SECRET SANTA 2014!

SantaSandyMumsnet · 05/11/2014 10:11

Mornin all,

Right, NOMINEES WE NEED YOUR DETAILS PLEASE. Good thinking Worra and cozie and thanks for the suggestions about PMing. All done.

No need to give your username when filling in the information form, you'll be logged in to Mumsnet so we'll know who you are.

The spreadsheets are ready, the Christmas jumper is out the wash and the gin is on ice. All we need now are the mince pies.

Any questions (please do not use the PMing system it's an administrative nightmare) just drop us a mail at [email protected].

Sleigh bells ring, are you listening? In the lane, snow is glistening...

Season's (well nearly) greetings, and welcome to the MUMSNET SECRET SANTA 2014!

SantaSandyMumsnet · 11/11/2014 10:24

The Secret Santa train is chugging forward and the matching has begun!
Both the nomination and donation pages are now closed. So if any of you lovely lot have missed the opportunity this year, make a note in your diary for next year. Everyone welcome.
Any queries about your nomination or donation now need to come to us at [email protected]. Please don't hesitate, we're very happy to help.

The matching up is a long and thoughtful process, we try to get as good a fit as possible, so the mails to donors giving instructions about their gifts will not be going out FOR SOME TIME.

Season's (well nearly) greetings, and welcome to the MUMSNET SECRET SANTA 2014!

SantaSandyMumsnet · 26/11/2014 14:07

The spreadsheets are matched the mails to donors have been sent and Christmas is just around the corner.

It's all going on over on this thread now. Go see for yourself!

Ding Dong Merrily on High.

Season's (well nearly) greetings, and welcome to the MUMSNET SECRET SANTA 2014!

SantaSandyMumsnet · 02/12/2014 17:44

Afternoon folks

If you have any queries, just so we don't miss them, please could we ask you to pop a quick mail to us at [email protected]. We're always happy to help.

Check out my Christmas jumper, too much?

Season's (well nearly) greetings, and welcome to the MUMSNET SECRET SANTA 2014!

SantaSandyMumsnet · 03/12/2014 12:37

@StripedOss

can i ask, just for curiosity's sake, how you match donor and nominee?

I read through both spreadsheet details from the nominations (just under 300) page and the donation (just under 450) page and see how things sit. Then I do my very best to make the most appropriate matches I can. I am human and it does get a bit of a head-spin after a few hours, so a massive apology to all you lovely lot if I don't get it quite right sometimes.
We take the Secret Santa very seriously and I really put my heart and soul into it and find it a very humbling experience, hugely rewarding too.

SantaSandyMumsnet · 06/12/2014 12:41

Flowers Flowers Flowers
Thank you. Cuppa anyone?

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