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Dejags?

17 replies

BluGhost · 01/04/2004 12:35

Dejags, are you here?
Feeling very worried as she has not posted since her message on 15th March about shocking repercussions to her problem. Is anyone in touch with her?

OP posts:

Twinkie · 01/04/2004 12:36

I have emailed her a few times previously - I will try and hunt out her address and send her a mail.

Original poster

BluGhost · 01/04/2004 12:46

That's good to hear, twinkie.

OP posts:

WideWebWitch · 01/04/2004 13:25

I've been wondering about her too

suedonim · 01/04/2004 16:01

Dejags has been on my mind, too, her last message was very worrying.

Blu · 06/04/2004 11:06

Bump.
Anyone heard anything of her?

Twinkie · 06/04/2004 11:13

Have just mailed her and got an out of office - apparently she is on holiday until 19th April!!

I know she lives near me but have no idea where!!

Blu · 07/04/2004 10:45

Thanks, Twinkie.

dejags · 19/04/2004 21:26

Hi All,

Thank you all for asking after me - it is so nice to know somebody remembered me. I am okay - things were pretty bad for a couple of weeks. For those of you who don't know I had a very difficult relationship with my parents which was the result of an abusive upbringing.

When I confronted them the response I got was beyond belief, various (incredibly ugly)skeletons reared their heads from a closet which should never have been opened - the result of which is that I will never speak to any of my immediate family ever again. It has been hard to deal with and I was unable to post on mumsnet because I didn't want the gory details of my family disaster published on the www.

Anyway things are looking up - I am now 20 weeks pregnant, have just returned from a great 2 week holiday with DH and DS in Goa and hopefully with counselling I can start putting this behind me.

Thanks again for thinking of me.
Dejags

coppertop · 19/04/2004 21:34

Welcome back, Dejags.

twiglett · 19/04/2004 21:45

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suedonim · 19/04/2004 21:45

Oh, how lovely to have you back, Dejags, I'm so pleased. Best wishes.

Blu · 20/04/2004 11:53

Oh Dejags, what a relief to have you back and sounding strong about the future. Counselling, a fab holiday (with your 'here, now and emotionally healthy new family, dh, ds and d?), and a new baby sound like a great way to move forward.
XXXXX

dinosaur · 20/04/2004 12:17

So glad to hear that things are looking up.

Take care

xxx

bunny2 · 20/04/2004 19:38

Hi Dejags, I remember feelign really worried at your last post b4 you left here. I am so glad everything is ok wiht you, congratulations too on the pregnancy.

Tinker · 20/04/2004 19:41

Oh, glad to hear you're ok and sounding well.

sis · 20/04/2004 20:01

Dejags, thanks for coming back and letting us know how you are getting on and I'm really glad that you are feeling better than when you last posted.

suzywong · 20/04/2004 20:07

So good to hear you are doing OK and looking to the future with your new family unit, still going to Capetown, I saw it on a holiday programme last night and thought of you

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