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Mumsnet Christmas Appeal - suggestions please

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JustineMumsnet · 21/10/2013 15:03

Following on from a couple of threads discussing the Christmas appeal over the weekend, I thought we should post our thoughts on things.

First we're really sorry if not being nominated for this year's appeal has made anyone feel bad or left out. Obviously it's the opposite of why we do it but the truth is there will always be deserving people who, for whatever reason - frequent namechanges or pure and simple oversight - will be overlooked.

Over the years the Xmas appeal really has brought a lot of joy both to the givers and receivers of gifts - this is a typical post/mail from a giver:

"It is a wonderful thing this Santa business. It totally dispels the idea that Mumsnet is no more than words on a screen and shatters the notion of the pit of vipers. Since being matched with you, not a day has passed when I haven't thought of you and your family. Your posts shine with warmth, humour and love for your family. You are a remarkable woman. For me, it has been more than sending a little something: you have made me really think about what Christmas should be.
So I thank you too, and will raise a glass to you and yours on Christmas Day. Much love to you all"

As Christmas becomes every more about consumption we think the appeal for many is a reminder of what it is really all about. It certainly is for us at MNHQ and consequently we are very happy to put a lot of MNHQ resource into the operation; SandyMumsnet pretty much devotes a month of time to it.

Clearly it doesn't operate optimally for everyone, but net net, it really is a good thing I believe. That said we'd value suggestions about how you think we could do it better. We took over the operation of the appeal only because it was becoming too big a job for any individual - but it was conceived by Mumsnetters for Mumsnetters and exists pretty much in the same form as that original idea.

Do let us know your thoughts and suggestions here.

OP posts:
usualsuspect · 21/10/2013 20:03

Pity the poor bugger that ended up with something I had actually made Grin

I expect the thread title would be 'What the fuck is this'

Best stick to a voucher.

ChestyCoffin · 21/10/2013 20:06

I don't think it needs changing at all.

It's a huge board so everyone won't receive a nomination but all this bad feeling about it is really boiling my piss Angry

It's starting to feel like a giant playground Sad

Mintyy · 21/10/2013 20:08

I don't really care deeply about it tbh. It doesn't feature heavily on my radar, which is why I am extremely Hmm that someone with almost no posting history on here could be so worked up that they hadn't been nominated and feel the need to start a sad old thread about it.

I am inordinately fond of some of my fellow Mumsnetters but it wouldn't occur to me to send them a Christmas present! I find it enough of a chore to go Christmas shopping for my own children.

I think the idea of people nominating themselves is preposterous unworkable, sorry.

Mintyy · 21/10/2013 20:09

But I do very much LOVE an orange stuck with cloves at Christmas, Gavrorf!

HereComesHoneyBooBooDragon · 21/10/2013 20:10

Ooooh can we send stuff we make?

In that case I'd be sending A 2m long smart phone in the post

Now that's a surprise Grin

MillyMollyMully · 21/10/2013 20:11

SilasGreenback's suggestion is a very good one. Especially since people are always moaning about the Local Mumsnet sites being as dull as ditchwater because they are so devoid of any activity.

A Christmas Appeal would be make Local MN sites a real rallying point. Maybe we could nominate local charities? Dropping off gifts could be done at a mass meet-up, so we could all meet each other. It would work well as recycling and decluttering. God knows I need the latter. And my old tat would go to someone who actually needed it.

Surely that would be win-win, with MNHQ getting a very big win, and local communities getting a mahoosive win as well. You could certainly get local press along if you wanted.

PedlarsSpanner · 21/10/2013 20:11

yes agree to no self-nomming

this isn't some kind of sexshual perversion I'll have you know

Grin
Hullygully · 21/10/2013 20:12

I have made a Christmas slug. I got one of those giant invading ones and stuck cloves in it and put some lametta on its head. It's lovely and looking for a special Christmas home if anyone would like it?

HereComesHoneyBooBooDragon · 21/10/2013 20:13

Meeeeee! I want a festive slug!

Grennie · 21/10/2013 20:14

Yes please hully

BOF · 21/10/2013 20:14

Save it for me, Hully. I would treasure it.

Grennie · 21/10/2013 20:14

Oh no. Dragon beat me to it.

BOF · 21/10/2013 20:15

Too late. Gah.

IT'S NOT FAAAAAAIR Angry

usualsuspect · 21/10/2013 20:16

Could you stick it to a £1000 gift voucher before you send it to me?

HereComesHoneyBooBooDragon · 21/10/2013 20:16

I would love it for ever. It would do slug on the shelf and everythink. It would be for life not just Xmas.

Would you like a 2m smart phone in return Hully? Or some waterwings?

LeGavrOrf · 21/10/2013 20:17

See now you are mocking me and my pomanders.

Sad

I still can't look a clove in the eye.

Scarletohello · 21/10/2013 20:17

Am fairly new to MN so don't really get what the Secret Santa is all about. However I have a few cosmetic products that don't work for me that I'd like to give to someone who might appreciate them. How can I do this please? ( is a BB cream and a primer)

usualsuspect · 21/10/2013 20:17

I would buy it Christmas pjs

Mintyy · 21/10/2013 20:17

I would like a festive slug with lametta on its tail, not its head, if that is not too much to ask thankyouverymuch.

mignonnetteZOMBIEKILLEROFHQ · 21/10/2013 20:18

I am amazed that grown women are so invested in a website that they are bothered about being 'nominated' or not. And then come onto said website to gripe about it.

Saying that, keeping the whole process bar the initial publicising would go a long way to protect the motives of those genuinely wanting to give.

And maybe not worry about 'knowing' whether your nomination/gift was received. Just give if you want to and let it go after that. Yes, you might wonder forever what happened to your gift but so be it. You wouldn't chase up other charitable appeals to ask what had happened to your gift would you?

Self nominations? How crass. Go buy yourself a bloody bar of chocolate and make do with that.

Hassled · 21/10/2013 20:18

Ooh I love a good pomander, me. Cloves are a bastard to stick in, though.

My top suggestions for the Christmas appeal thing are to a) change nothing and b) get Tech to sort some sort of auto-delete thing for any thread that has the word "appeal" in it from September to Christmas.

KneesoftheBeeHellZeBub · 21/10/2013 20:18

Please remember - a slug is not just for Xmas.

LeGavrOrf · 21/10/2013 20:19

What the hell is lametta?

Scarlett that is very kind, I don't know where the donation thread is. If might be better to post something I style and beauty.

ChestyCoffin · 21/10/2013 20:19

I would make it snowman soup with a candy cane in....

Pick me hully!

trixymalixy · 21/10/2013 20:21

The only thing that needs to change is the name IMO, to avoid people thinking they are donating to a charity appeal. The rest of it is fine as it is.

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