I posted on a thread about parents of all boys or girls. Had a lovely PM from a young woman, sympathising with me worrying about future daughter-in-laws, and would like to reply to her, but when I check messages there's nothing in there. Don't know her name.... don't want to give out personal info that she mentioned, but if it's you, sorry I couldn't answer immediately, was very touched by your message, and feel rotten that you'll be thinking that you were ignored.