i have changed my name for this i'm afraid. i have discovered that someone on here is related to my friend. i'm not happy with the things she says about her and the family, most of which i know first hand are not true. What do i do? if i say anything she will complain to my friend who has no idea what is being said about her (and would be gutted if she knew) or do i let her get away with it? your help please lovely people x