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Original poster

thread i started has disappeared.

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fucknose · 08/06/2012 21:58

It is definitely not there. It was about a very sensitive topic re dh. I am really worried that he found thread and had it deleted. If not, where is it? please?

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fucknose · 08/06/2012 22:04

bump

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DailyMailSpy · 08/06/2012 22:07

What was it about?

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fucknose · 08/06/2012 22:10

it was about a rather intimate issue with dh. I wonder if he has found thread and had it deleted. I am paranoid now. The aforementioned issue has raised its ugly head again which is why i wanted to reread advice from old thread.

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lovesthesun · 08/06/2012 22:13

Does he have your details? Is it worth nc and starting a new thread? Btw all threads are supposed to be deleted after 90days so if it was a really old one that might explain it.

FuckerSnailInYourHedgerow · 08/06/2012 22:15

Not all threads are deleted after 90 days, just ones in Chat. Was it in chat? Search for keywords, or search for threads started by the username you used. Don't worry, it's pretty unlikely he found it and had it deleted...

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fucknose · 08/06/2012 22:15

Are threads deleted after 90 days? I didnt know that. Really?? The thread was around new year so way over 90 days ago.

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fucknose · 08/06/2012 22:16

is it only Chat ones that are deleted? Maybe I started it in Chat so it would disappear quickly. Are chat threads archived?

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lovesthesun · 08/06/2012 22:17

Only classics I think. Some mn may come along soon and be able to help

lovesthesun · 08/06/2012 22:18

I meant someone from mnhq-damn wine!

LeBOFFY · 08/06/2012 22:19

Chat threads disappear after 90 days, as do threads in the non-googlable section OTBT. I don't think they are archived, but if you know the rough date and title, and email HQ, they might be able to find it for you, but not resurrect it, I don't think. Do you need some help? You could start another one?

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fucknose · 08/06/2012 22:19

yes damn the wine! Its making me paranoid! Thanks for your help. Have emailed MNHQ.

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FuckerSnailInYourHedgerow · 08/06/2012 22:19

They might be able to retrieve it if you mail them, think the contact us @ mumsnet address?

lovesthesun · 08/06/2012 22:22

Loving the word-googlable! Sorry-wine again!

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fucknose · 08/06/2012 22:23

LeBOF, i dont really need help but when I couldnt find the thread I started to panic. Dh and I having rocky patch and paranoia is high. I thought he was spying on me. Thanks tho Smile. I will relax a bit now and just pray the original thread was in chat!

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HRHOliviaMumsnet · 09/06/2012 00:03

Hello there
Sorry for the delay in getting back to you. We have emailed you too. But we have no reason to believe that it was deleted for any other reason than it might have been in chat
Hope this sets your mind at rest.
MNHQ

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