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can we have a 'LIKE' button on every posters post??

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nightshade · 10/10/2011 12:31

sometimes i don't wish to comment but want to acknowledge that i like a mumsnetter's post or response. i keep going to click the like button, as on facebook but inevitably find that it is not there!!

OP posts:
GetOrfMo1Land · 11/10/2011 09:47

Subtlety!

SuePurblybilt · 11/10/2011 09:48

Innit Grin. Subtle like a fox

fastweb · 11/10/2011 09:56

One woman's "lazy posters" are another woman's potential active lurkers, and a like button is a fairly non stenuous activitiy that can help switch people from passive to active lurking.

Active lurkers are an asset cos they don't just consume and give nothing back.

In one way or another they contribite off site to raising the profile of the site (word of mouth, twitter, blog) and help keep the flow of new blood and increased membership (and thus better revenues) moving at a decent rate.

At least I think that is the way it works, if I understood it right.

Non active lurkers can be encouraged into becoming fully active through babysteps like a "like button", so there is a better chance of them at some point generating content.

I'm not a fan of like buttons, but I am a fan of mumsnet doing what they need to do to stay at the top of the game so they don't disappear into the ether in the future. Becuase it is in myown interests for them to have the kind of sucess that means they don't flog this place off to a corperate outift as soon as it looks like a decline has set in, due to not keeping up with all the functionality other sites can offer.

A corperate merger of mn and nm under the managment of whoever it was that ruined ivillage is not my idea of a result.

I Don't see how a trial run is the end of the world as we know it, I'll likely opt out, my eyes don't like things distracting from the words and internal board politics (royalty stuuf) is not my cup of tea.

This site stands out IMO in the sense that Da Management has a informal, non punative, open forum dialogue with its users and really does seem to take on board what they have to say. So if any site can be trusted with a trial run of a seemingly unpopular function, that can be user disabled, I think this one is has proven that it can be trusted not to wreck their own site and hack off all their users by doggedly sticking to something that proved negative on many levels when they put it through its paces.

Beside, Justine did this How can you resist ?

I still think there should be a limit of (anon) likes per registered account per week/month though.

VampiresWearBlackVelvet · 11/10/2011 10:00

Call me a sad twat, but this has been keeping me awake, so I had to post what I was thinking in the wee small hours....

About 6 or 7 years ago I used to use a site called bebo. On bebo you had a daily 'allowance' (for want of a better word) of love to spread. [boak] I think it was 3. You could send 3 people love and their profiles would say something like Velvet has 364 loves, blah de blah.

Not sure if this has already been said but...

If (and possibly when) MN introduce a like button, then I suggest a daily allowance of likes (say 10 - 20) - because if I had unlimited likes I'd be liking the arse out of everything Grin And not actually saying anything.

MyMelody · 11/10/2011 10:00

we all say we will opt out, but if they do bring it in won't we all have to opt in out of curiosity to see how many likes or not we have got? then justine will say, 'oh most people have opted in, its a success' when really we don't want it. i think the majority on this thread are against

wellwisher · 11/10/2011 10:00

If you're doing the coding for Like buttons anyway, could we please also have buttons for "drip feed" and "stealth boast"? Ta.

Grin
MyMelody · 11/10/2011 10:02

now a 'stealth boast' button, yes that would be fun... Grin

Pagwatch · 11/10/2011 10:02

I suspect that Justine already has the trial ready to go and this thread is therefore so much hot air. But I do like that if it doesn't work I will be right for evermore.

What I am curious about is what will determine if the trial is a success or failure?

SuePurblybilt · 11/10/2011 10:07

Arm wrestle? Greasy pole and feather pillows. With a baying crowd.

That's the MN way

GetOrfMo1Land · 11/10/2011 10:08

The first row on a thread which is caused by the like button, and which cayuses MNHQ to steam in and shout, I will say I TOLD YOU THIS WOULD HAPPEN NER NER NER NER NER

BrainSurgeon · 11/10/2011 10:08

fastweb, I really 'like' you.

GetOrfMo1Land · 11/10/2011 10:08

Are wrestle?

Don't be silly. Do a mud wrestle. At the meet up. I will start a book.

SuePurblybilt · 11/10/2011 10:11

I'm not sure it'll result in a row, I just think it'll bring out the worst in people in all sorts of ways

GetOrfMo1Land · 11/10/2011 10:12

Yes it will result in a row. At christmas. Like all the other mumsnet rows since time immemorial.

fastweb · 11/10/2011 10:15

So that's me, VampiresWearBlackVelvet and FetchezLaVache in a quiche for anon, LIMITED number of likes per registered poster, per specificed time period, to aviod the trial decending into some of the less positive outcomes described above coming to pass.

If we three get banned you can bet tech was behind it, in an act of life/work balance self defence Grin

fastweb · 11/10/2011 10:26

And brainsurgeon she has been co opted into our quiche too.

toosoontoosoon · 11/10/2011 10:26

Networkguy, that's not the case I don't think. There have been LOADS of threads asking about hiding posters. I wasn't aware there had been any about like buttons.

So there we go.

Two points about this:

It seeks to polarise. You like or you dislike, no in between. It's incredibly inane.

it will minimise posting.

We could have done this entire thread using just the OP and 200 odd 'like# or 'dislike' votes.

Are you trying to make MN smaller? Reduce debate to a black and white pre-defined choice? I thought that was completely not the point.

Maybe I am missing something.

BecauseImWorthIt · 11/10/2011 10:27

Oh goodness, Pag - naked mud wrestling. Such fun!
Grin

toosoontoosoon · 11/10/2011 10:32

ALSO (covers own post count with a teatowel, without attracting attention)

What is the use of someone saying 'like' or 'don't like' to one of my posts?

I can usually tell how it's going down by the fact it gets followed by a 'I agree with flight' or a 'flight you are being a cunt'. Then people can explain WHY and I might learn to stop it (or carry on)

If someone just says 'dislike' then I've no idea why and your'e all stuck with me being a cunt for the foreseeable future.

It's up to you...

(trial might be a good idea so we can see how crap it is...whoever it was said that, well done...though I'm not sure I want to see even a trial period of like-related bun fighting)

SayGhoulNowSayWitch · 11/10/2011 10:42

FGS, I said no! That should be enough for you, MNHQ.

fastweb · 11/10/2011 10:44

If someone just says 'dislike' then I've no idea why

Oh I dunno, if I don't get a huge number of dislikes when railing against a board full of pro lifers, I tend to think I'm not putting my back into it.

On the other hand, again sticking to a topic that many find too daunting to put a toe in, on a mixed pro life/pro choice board the like function can underline that regardless of the huge number of strident posts generted by a select few, the majority of silent readers aren't convinced, which gives you hope and reason to keep plugging away on the parralel lines, in the hope that some fence sitters might be persuaded to lean an inch in my direction. On the days where it feels you are banging your head against a brick wall to the point of bleeding and want to just pack in even trying to counteract the arguments made, that's not such a bad thing.

Again, its not a feature that I hanker after, however few things in life are totally black ans white, with only negative side effects and zero potential for an upside.

Like buttons included.

Suck it and see, spitting it out is always an option if the flavour is decidedly vinigary when implemented on this site for a trial period.

Pagwatch · 11/10/2011 11:20

Grin at such fun.

I think in a democratic society mud wrestling has it's place.

I think if you are going with like buttons we should at least have a range. Especially for those of us who like nuance.

Can we have things to cover the grey?
A whilst concede you may have a point but you are so rude in your posting that I am loathe to agree button
A god, why are you eternally and determinedly chippy button
A you give stupid a whole new level button
And a pard button. I would like to point out your failings including a simple grasp of logic or a modicum of humanity but I am far too well mannered button.
And a 'fuck, yeah! Button

BecauseImWorthIt · 11/10/2011 11:22
SayGhoulNowSayWitch · 11/10/2011 11:24

Can we have an anti-apostrophe button?

Blackduck · 11/10/2011 11:24

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