There is a post on [[http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/_chat/1249616-I-feel-backed-into-a-corner-as-my-friends-gone-about-this-completely-the-wrong-way?msgid=26224085#26224085 this thread]] with no name and date above it (so the bar is blank iyswim) - what is going on? Also where is site tech stuff?