If I unsubscribe will all my history be deleted?

[soveryangry]

Hi
I have namechanged for this as my dd has just outed me to my ds who I have made many posts about,

If I unsubsribe will all my posts be deleted and can I return again using the same email address?

Nope. You have to email MNHQ for that.

Your posts will only be deleted if you ask them to be.

And yes you can join again with the same email address. I did :)

Thanks, How do I email MNHQ, I am so upset and and angry,

Do I just report it?

[email protected], I think. Poor you - what a nightmare.

You might get a faster response if you report one of your own posts - along blue bar next to your name,

Thankyou I will try reporting each one,

not every one was about ds but maybe 2 or 3 , she didnt realise when she blurted it out, I trusted her and was logging on, i'm just so worried he will look further and see stuff that will make life even harder than it is already,

I was finally beggining to feel a memeber of mn but thats all gone now as cannot use the same name anymore, friggin kids lol

I have emailed MNHQ just have to wait see what happens now,

Guess if they do get rid of everything then I will become a newbie again,

I know she didnt know how blurting it out would affect me but gonna kkep even more to myself in future, cant trust anyone,

soveryangry Some were in AIBU and some in chat, just hope he doesn't have the sense to look,

it wouldnt matter so much if it was only on the computer but he has the internet on his phone so who knows what he sees

Remember that Chat threads are deleted altogether after 3 months, so you might be OK with some stuff. This is the reason I tend to stick to Chat if it's anything personal!

soveryangry - I'm sorry - you can always PM some of the people you know with your new name and ask them not to out you - then you wont feel so 'alone' when you come back x

Thankyou 3 months is a long time though,

Both my kids know I go on here but none knew my user name, I did tell my dd a few nights ago as thought she needed to know i showed her some trust and none of my posts were directly about her,

I have changed names a few times but have found you get more abuse and negative stuff when you do so try to use my original name as much as possible.

I have not seen my son since she blurted this out, she just came down for something but completely ignored me,

Why did you feel she needed to know?

If you haven't been able to get it all wiped now you are probably too late - surely if he wanted to read it he would have done it straight away :(

I still think you should PM a bunch of us when you get your new name, tell us your old name - we'll be careful not to say anything, but you wont feel like a newbie x