Kids do reception in England/Wales before they start year 1? I don't think they have that here in Scotland, so I assume Tom will just start in Primary 1 then.
We want just a small wedding at the local registry office, though may just see how much Gretna would cost . I don't want an expensive ring seeing as I lost my engagement ring during my move to Scotland . And that was less then £200, but we had it shipped from the States! Arghh! It's a photographer I will have a problem with cost wise. When i've done weddings, i've only charged £100 max and thats for all photos on CD/all printed in 6x4 and put into albums, all numbered.
We'd have a meal in the local carvery or a pub with a nice garden for Tom and DC2 to play in. I'd probably have a big party for my friends and family back home at some point as well.