DD needs to go into the second stage car seats - forward facing. Our Mazda Xedos, (8yrs old) is giving us huge problems as the buckle bit of the seat belt (the short bit) is too long (almost 3 - 4 inches). We need to get it shorterned. Impossible to get hold of Mazda, some garages said that car upholsterers can do it... has anyone else had to do this?