My parents are divorced have been for twenty years or so , my mum remarried an agressive controlling man who I dont want to see , my dad married a nice woman who does not really want us in her house ,ive two small children who my dad avoids seeing and only buys gifts for, my mum loves my kids but travels by bus to see us when she can as neither of us drive. My mums husband is planning moving with her too far for her to visir by bus. Im angry and annoyed with both if them for their lack of help and basically my dads rejection of them , when my dad visits he only wants to see me so waits till school day even if I offer a werkend , he visits just to drop off birthday or christmas gifts. wonder if I can have wedding without them and have my lovely friends and partners parents .my partner feels it would be wrong and too secretive.