I'm regretfully coming to accept that my 8 seater Previa is, at some point, going to need replacing. It, and it's predecessors, have served me well. If they had continued the 8 seater, I would not be here 
I'm a childminder. So I need, I really do need, those 8 seats. And a big storage space for pushchairs and playgroup boxes. The Previa was perfect, as well as being reliable and safe.
Looks do not matter. I am not at all bothered if it looks like a van or a bus, I'm not all that worried if it's noisy - it'd have a job competing with 6 kids and "Sing Along Songs" 
My priorities are number of seats -at least 8) - reliability and safety. Affordability is always a consideration.
So far, I've looked at the Viano (how much??!
) the Tourneo and the Hyundai I800. Any thoughts? Does my dream car really exist, or am I better off biting the bullet and looking at minibuses?