oh b*x YG asorry for being crap and thoughtless, tbh I didn't even read the name, just the op. That's also one reason I'm not one of the 'in crowd' even tho i've been here fro years, cos I struggle to remember who's who and who'd said or done what etc etc. I struggle to keep up, but I'm really sorry if I was tactless and hurt your feelings. Hope you & the girls are coping. I know the 'festive' period can be especially difficult. xx