Oh, me too, normsknockers! New technology is leaving me further and further behind, I feel like my own grandma!
I have managed the connect-download thing, that part's easy - the lead comes with the camera, it just plugs into one of the USB ports; then the PC pops up an idiot's box to tell you what to do.
Admittedly someone else (under 20!) had already loaded the software but I think that's quite easy too? It's a CD-rom and that will have its own idiot instructions