Looking for inspiration for 4th wedding anniversary present for DH

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As above really - apparently it's traditionally either linen or silk (US) or fruit and flowers in the UK. I have zero inspiration, please help!

I got DH a banana! (and something else of course, but there wasn't a fruit/flower or linen/silk connection)

Champagne and strawberries? Silk lingerie? If he's into gardening you could get him a special plant?

I bought dh a linen mix shirt, but ours was in August so a bit more appropriate than November! Could you stretch to a weekend away and say that you will be enjoying the bedlinen at xxx hotel?

How I would love the weekend away scenario but no - got a 4 month old and 2 year old, bah. The plant is a great idea though, thank you, we've just moved house and while he's not a gardener he is a keen cook so I'm thinking some big pots of herbs might be just the thing.